picture of life

           when we were younger, our minds are set to the ideal world. we have this perfect picture of what we want out of life.You probably even have the groom in your wedding(i did!), you’ve already pick the white gown you wanna wear( tania?), how many kids you’ll have, have a fabulous job, own a few cars, travel the world, etc…etc….etc until reality hits us hard. BAM! Suddenly the picture you painted is slowly fading away. Your ideal man/woman isn’t so ideal anymore, nag sisisi kana kung bakit kaba nag pakasal sa kumag mong asawa, hinahanap mo narin ang expiry date ng marriage contract nyo. (sori no return-no exchange).

Ngayon naman pilit mong nire-rewind ang kahapon, marami kang mga ‘what if’, pati ang mga guys/girls na di papasa sayo nun, ngayon kino consider mo na. You couldn’t believe your eyes when you saw ———–(*fill in the gap) driving his/her new car, at yung classmate mong di naman kagandahan eh naka kuha ng doctor-pilit mo ng dinidiscover kung ginayuma ba nya ang gwaping. Kung successful nman ang kakilala mong dati akala mo walang mowang, inaasume mo na bka may backer?

if anybody could see through the future, ade ang saya saya! but you’ll never know how it feels to succeed when you never fail, how to appreciate being happy when you were never sad, what it feels like to be with the right man/woman when you never met the wrong one. so sack the fairy tale ending and make your journey worth while. live and learn. Stop worrying about tomorrow or you’ll never enjoy today. make the most of what you’ve got,it’s never too late to work on your own happy story.